80/20 Rule

From my Sensei AZ

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A food for thought!!!!

Bersyukur lah selalu…….

A very valuable lesson to learn ...

Interesting quote from the movie 'Why did I get married?' In most cases, especially in relationships, you will only get 80% of what you NEED and you will hardly get the other 20% that you WANT in your relationship. There is always another person (man or women) that you will meet and that will offer you the other 20% which is lacking in your relationship that you WANT. And believe me, 20% looks really good when you are not getting it at all in your current relationship. But the problem is that you will always be tempted to leave that good 80% that you know you have, thinking that you will get something better with the other 20% that you WANT But as reality has proven, in most cases, you will always end up with having the 20% that you WANT and loosing the 80% that you really NEED and that you already had. Be careful in deciding between what you WANT and NEED in your life.

Adultery happens when you start looking for what you don't have. 'Wow, this girl in my office is a real looker. But it's not her Wynona Rider features that got me. I'm crazy about her because she's also understanding, intelligent, tender - so many things that my spouse is not' Somewhere along the way, you'll find a woman or a man who will be more charming or sensitive. More alluring. More thoughtful. Richer. Have greater sex appeal. And you will find a woman or man who will need you and pursue you and go loco over you more than your spouse ever did. Because no wife or husband is perfect. Because a spouse will only have 80% of what you're looking for. So adultery takes place when a husband or wife looks for the missing 20%. Let's say your wife is melancholic by nature . You may find yourself drawn to the pretty clerk who has a cherry laugh no matter what she says: 'I broke my arm yesterday, Hahahaha . . ..' Or because your wife is a homebody in slippers and pajamas, smelling of garlic and fish oil, you may fall for a fresh-smelling young sales representative that visits your office in a sharp black blazer, high heels, and a red pencil-cut skirt Or because your husband is the quiet type, your heart may skip a beat when you meet an old college flame who has the makings of a talk show host. But wait! That's only 20% of what you don't have. Don't throw away the 80% that you already have! That's not all. Add to your spouse's 80% the 100% that represents all the years that you have been with each other. The storms you have weathered together. The unforgettable moments of sadness and joy as a couple. The many adjustments you have made to love the other. The wealth of memories that you've accumulated as lovers. Adultery happens when you start looking for what you don't have. But faithfulness happens when you start thanking God for what you already have. But I'm not just talking about marriage. I'm talking about life! About your jobs. About your friends. About your children. About your lifestyles. Are you like the economy airline passenger that perennially peeks through the door of the first class cabin, obsessed with what he's missing? 'They have got more leg room! Oh my, their food is served in porcelain! Wow, their seats recline at an 80% angle and they've got personal videos!' I guarantee you'll be miserable for the entire trip! Don't live your life like that. Forget about what the world says is first class. Do you know that there are many first class passengers who are miserable in first class -- because they are not riding in a private Lear Jet? The main message??? If you start appreciating what you have right now, wherever you are, you are first class!

McD @ Labuan

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Telah dibuka dengan rasminya pada 8 Oktober lalu. Maka, sejak hari tersebut, restoran ini sentiasa penuh dengan pelanggan... almaklumlah, first time ever in the island!

Saya juga tidak melepaskan peluang ini... almaklumlah, nanti dah balik semenanjung takdapat nak merasa lagi "McD Labuan" ni... cewahh, berangan macam boleh balik esok je... uwaaaa bila boleh balik semenanjung ni??? hope i'll be here until end of this year only! hmmmphhh

Sebagai bukti, lihatlah gambar-gambar ini... heheh

newest in town...




with zara... tgk tu...nak gak tunjuk giginye yang jarang tuh... heheh


siap tapau lagi... :p

Here Again...

Kembali ke Labuan...

Aduyaiii... tak dapat nak melenakan diri... esok kerja la c'meema...

Tak boleh tidur, mungkin sebab dah agak lama tinggalkan sini... lagipun menumpang bilik kawan. Saya booking bilik pada 15 haribulan depan, tup-tup terawal pula balik sini, so terpaksa la menumpang sehingga dapat bilik sendiri 7 haribulan ni. Hotel kat sini seperti biasa la, full house memanjang. Flite pun penuh je memanjang...

Kepala dah pening-pening ni... tapi degil betul mata ni taknak tido... hish
Makanye... c'meema pun menyebokkan diri menukar template blognye... lagi...

Harap-harap dapat men-tune kepala untuk kembali bekerja di site... heh macam la lama benor dia tu meninggalkan kehidupan normal di sini...tahapehapetah

Di Kala Kesunyian Menjengah Di Hari Boringku (Aku di Jepun -Episod 1)

Waktu tempatan saat ini adalah : jam 1711...

Sungguh bosan bermalas-malasan di bilik kecil ini... ohh, cantik sungguh gambar yang diletakkan di website itu... spacious... tapi, kenapa tidak sama, sama sekali dengan kamar yang aku huni ini? sungguh kecil... nasib baik aku ini kecil juga orangnya... kasihan pada IS yang agak besar itu opss jahat aku ni kata dia besar hahaha

Bilik Hotel ini;
hmm... very nice... cozy... complete... oh btw saya stay at LADIES FLOOR. so, banyak barang kosmetik disediakan... lotion berbagai-bagai jenis, face mask, hand wash gel, facial foam, cleaning oil, hair essence, hair clip, hair net... all by Shiseido. tak cukup iron, siap ade hanger steamer... jakun gile nak guna... ironnye pulak cordless... very cool (ohh kawan-kawan, betapa jakunnye aku!). semuanye nice... hotel pun baru... yang tak nicenye bilik tecik gile... nasib baik katil beso... untuk pengetahuan, ini adalah hotel yang ke-3 sepanjang saya di sini. saya telah membayar ￥96,200 untuk penginapan dari 18 hingga 28 Oktober. Oleh itu, wahai kawan-kawan janganlah berkecil hati sebab saya tak bawa balik cenderahati untuk kamu-kamu... hatta sehelai t-shirt putih nipis yang tertulis "Genbaku Dome Hiroshima" itu pun berharga tidak kurang RM100. Barulah kutahu salah satu sebab kenapa Negara Matahari Terbit ini mempunyai kadar bunuh diri yang tinggi... very high cost of living...

Sebenarnya, saya telah bersiap awal2 pagi dan menunggu panggilan IS untuk keluar jalan-jalan. malangnya sehingga waktu dan saat ini, masih tiada khabar berita darinya... isk3 :( sangat sedih... saya sangat teringin berkunjung ke Miyajima... yelah, alang-alang dah kat sini kan... takpelah maybe next time... oh btw, IS itu bekerja dengan Shell. Tapi cakap-cakapnye nak cari kerja lain kalau salary reviewnya dengan HR lepas balik dari sini tak seperti yang dia nak. Dia itu pada hemat saya sungguh bergeliga otaknya... graduate Plymouth U. Dia itu muda setahun dari saya, tapi lebih matang orangnya... aku ni bila tah matangnya hahaha ;)

Berbalik kepada cerita bosannye saya pada hari ini...
Mujurlah saya membawa bersama "Hijab Sang Pencinta", bolehlah juga dibuat ubat bosan itu... penat membaca padahal banyak lagi bacaan urusan kerja tak dimulai apa lgi nak dibuat? tekan-tekan remote tv takde cerita best... tak faham pula tu... godek-godek laptop saya bawa laptop company jumpa pulak lagu-lagu, game dan gambar... eh tak sangka laptop company ade benda-benda ni...hehehe best jugak tengok-tengok gambar orang ni... thanks HI dan NSF... banyak pulak lagu best...

Oh dah malam... sampai jumpa lagi di episod akan datang...

my room and kosmetikus


gobok terbuka yang sangat tecik... baju-baju lainnye selamat di dalam beg sila abaikan stokin busuk berbelang-belang itu... hahaha


bilik air... tengokla teciknye bath tub itu...

cordless iron dan hanger steamer...


part of Hiroshima from my window... oh tu ade Kodama Shinkansen sedang lalu...

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